St. Martin’s Monthly December 2010 50p The shepherds said one to another, “Let us now go even unto Bethlehem, and see this thing which is come to pass, which the Lord hath made known unto us.” And they came with haste, and found Mary, and Joseph; and the Babe lying in a manger. Luke 2: 15-16 St Martin’s Church, Hale Gardens, Acton W3 9SQ (Registered charity no. 1132976) Web: http://www.stmartinswestacton.org Email: [email protected] Vicar The Revd Dr Nicholas Henderson 020 8992 2333 The Revd Justin Dodd 020 8579 4246 The Revd Bruce Barnett-Cowan 020 8896 3065 Associate Vicar SS Minister Parishes Secretary (9am – 1pm weekdays) Parishes Office, 25 Birch Grove, W3 9SP 020 8992 2333 (Fax: 020 8932 1951) Reader Reader Emeritus Dr Margaret Jones (020 8997 1418) Mrs Lynne Armstrong (020 8992 8341) Churchwardens Lisa Ambridge (020 8992 3029) John Trussler (020 8992 4549) Director of Music Sunday School Youth Group Magazine Editor Kenneth Bartram (c/o Parishes Office) Jackie Nicholls (020 8575 0236) Jackie Nicholls (020 8575 0236) Clive Davis ([email protected]) 8am Holy Communion Usual Sunday Services 10am Parish Communion 6.30pm Evensong A non-Eucharistic Family Service is held on most first Sundays of the month. Our Sunday School meets in the Church Hall at 10am except when there is a Family Service. Every 2nd Sunday of the month: 2.30pm Holy Communion in Japanese Every Tuesday: 8am Holy Communion Every Wednesday: 10.30am Holy Communion at All Saints and followed by coffee at the Lantern Taverna See the Diary section later in the magazine for other service details. The Vicar is available for consultation and enquiries by appointment. Please ring the Parishes Office. Bearers of God Before saying anything else, let me express gratitude to you all from Alyson and myself. You have welcomed us most warmly into the parish. Your work on the St. Martin’s Cottage has been quite amazing. It has been repaired and painted; new double glazed windows have been installed and new carpet where needed. It has been furnished and equipped to a remarkable degree. We are very comfortable in it. Not only are we thankful for this but it is also a wise investment for the future of ministry in this place. My successors will be able to walk through the door and settle with little more than a suitcase and some personal books. When I have given to a particular project I like to see the results, when that is practicable. We will invite you, over a period of time, to visit and see what a wonderful job you have done. During Advent one of the themes that we ponder is the Annunciation when the angel brought God’s invitation to Mary to become the mother of his Son. There are a few reflections about this event that I would like to share with you. Some years ago the Faith and Order Commission of the World Council of Churches held a major international conference in Santiago de Compostella in Galicia in Spain. Alyson was a delegate and as I had always had a desire to see Santiago I hitched along (as is my wont from time to time). While I enjoyed myself greatly exploring the historic old buildings of that amazing city, and spoke with pilgrims who were pouring through the gates of the city (it was a Jubilee year), Alyson was deep in theological work with her colleagues. Her particular section was looking at the Nicene Creed and one day during a break she said to me, “This is most peculiar. In the English it says ‘was conceived by the Holy Ghost of the Virgin Mary’ but that is not what the original Greek text says at all. Literally it says “was conceived by the Holy Ghost and the Virgin Mary’. The Greek word is ‘kai’ which means ‘and’. How could this be?” I thought about this for a while and suggested a solution. My first degree was in Medieval Studies at the University of Toronto. Amongst other things I had the rather onerous task of looking over Medieval Latin manuscripts and comparing different versions of the same text. Occasionally there would show up scribal errors in transcription. The way the Latin word “et” (and) the Latin word “ex” (of 3 or from) are written in old manuscripts is sufficiently similar that it would be very easy to mistake the one for the other. I suggested that this was probably what had happened at some point early on. Alyson suggested that we pose the question to some of the scholars present, who all agreed with my hypothesis. This is why the World Council of Churches’ version of the Nicene Creed says “ and was incarnate by the Holy Spirit and the Virgin Mary”. The Church of England’s Common Worship modern language Nicene Creed reflects the accurate version in this particular. All this may seem like so much theological hair splitting but it was of important significance to the Nicene Fathers and indeed even to the writer of the Gospel of Luke. The ancient world was rife with stories of children born to human women after an encounter with some god or other. I am not, myself, aware of any such stories in the Classical, Middle Eastern, or Teutonic worlds that did NOT involve force or guile or some combination of the two. I’ve asked scholars of those disciplines far more involved that myself if they could identify any and they have all always said no. The writer of Luke is at pains to show that Mary freely consents to bear God’s child. There is no force or trickery involved. She is invited into a partnership with God in bringing the incarnate Word into the world, which she freely accepts. She is thus accorded, by a Council of the undivided Church held at Ephesus in 431 AD, the title Theotokos (Bearer of God). This is important for us in a few respects. It is an image for us about the way God wants to interact with all of us in a more general way. He invites us into partnership with him. There is no trickery or force but a free invitation that can be freely accepted. When we do respond to God’s invitation we are able, in a spiritual sense, to become bearers of God. In other words we can make Christ real for those around us. We are all called co-operate with God in bringing Christ into the lives of others. Mary’s courage and trust is an example for all of us to follow as we try to follow her Son. Bruce ××××××××××××××××××××××××××××××××××××× The first Tuesday each month is the Vicar’s Tea Party, held at the Vicarage, 3pm – 5pm. Tuesday, 7th December will be a special Christmas Tea Party!!!! 4 You are all invited to the VICAR’S NEW YEAR’S PARTY Friday, 31st December In the Church Hall, Hale Gardens 8.30pm until the New Year arrives Tickets: £10 from Parishes Office Dancing to the Derek Madel Band Bar, raffle and canapés 5 Consulting the congregation – what you said. Sunday, 7th November saw the congregation of the Family Service talking about the paper printed in last month’s St Martin’s Monthly called Consulting the Congregation. Below is a precise of the plenary from the Family Service. In answer to Why we belong to St Martin the following was said: The church is local to the people The friendliness of the church The music and the community life Worship, prayer, outreach and finance are all important. Silence was also seen as important for people to meditate and pray. St Martin’s was welcoming, very accepting of people and non-judgemental. The opportunity this service offered for discussion and throwing out ideas was appreciated. One group considered other ways of fundraising and suggested four Fairs/Bazaars during the year. Other ideas were regular cake sales and sale of old clothes. Is it time for another Stewardship campaign? How do we increase the size of the congregation? Many ideas cam up, including distributing flyers in the parish to remind people we are here. Advertising services and using the existing noticeboards to better effect was considered important. Some felt that there should be a calendar of regular events. Homemade Christmas cards could be made and sold to raise funds and bring awareness of St Martin’s Church. Within the church should we wear name badges? This seemed to be like Marmite – you either love the idea or hate it! Some suggested that there should be more Bible-study within the Sunday School. Now, with the arrival of Bruce, it was felt that the Sunday School would appreciate more input from the Clergy. Questions that were raised included: Do we utilise the skills within the congregation? Volunteers in the community- where and what is needed/available? Is there an opportunity to try alternative forms of service? Do we meet the needs of the single people in the parish? From the Editor: Inevitably, trying to take notes in the plenary comes with the problem of not being able to write fast enough to keep up with the speed that people talked. If you felt that your personal views are not reflected in the above, please feel free to email me your views and I will publish 6 them in the next issue of St Martin’s Monthly. Below is one viewpoint that has since been received. The question which was presented to the congregation was: WHY DO WE BELONG TO ST MARTIN’S? My answer was: TO WORSHIP GOD IN CHRISTIAN FELLOWSHIP It is always possible to worship God as an individual but there is no substitute for communal worship If we worship in fellowship we need a building (especially so in Northern Europe!) If we need a building we need to maintain it and so we need finance If we wish to have a priest to lead our worship and parish activities we need to pay him/her, to house him/her and provide for a reasonable pension for him/her. My point is that the starting point always has to be worship in Christian Fellowship, not finance. If we get the worship/spirituality right the rest should follow. People cannot and should not be coerced into ‘paying up’. It has to come from a firm desire to support the Church and that desire should be rooted in a robust spirituality. What I am saying is that the starting point should be one of deepening the faith of the congregation rather than deepening the pockets. Get the faith strengthened and the rest should follow. This was the reality of the early Church. On a slightly different tack, I think the idea of such a consultation is absolutely right. However, should you ever consider a similar exercise again which is set within the context of a 10am service, may I offer the following reflections: A 15 minute sermon slot 5 minutes address by the incumbent outlining the purpose of the exercise 2 minutes silent reflection 2 minutes each person (including the children) writes on a piece of blank paper the reason that he/she comes to St Martins. 4 minutes each person (including the children) are invited to come up to the altar to place their (folded) in a basket 2 minutes the servers (or someone similar) read out perhaps six of the answers The 15 minutes ends with silent reflection. All the times are of course approximate. My feeling is that this would keep the exercise within the context of a service of worship. Other discussion can take place outside 7 the service at a ‘meeting’. This format also has the advantage that every member (including the children) have a voice rather than the few who speak up. The PCC could later analyse the answers. At a later session the same process could be used to invite people to commit themselves either through extra giving, or offering their time/talents in a variety of ways, for example in teaching/hall cleaning/etc etc. aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa 6th St Nicholas Father Christmas seems to be as old as Europe. Once he was Woden, lashing his reindeer through the darkness of northern midwinter. Then he encountered the Church, and She transformed him into a saint, the much-loved Nicholas, Bishop of Myra (in south-west Turkey) in the fourth century. St Nicholas became the patron saint of children, and was given 6 December as his day. Since the 6th century, St Nicholas has been venerated in both East and West though virtually nothing is known of his life. Some believe he may have been one of the fathers at the Council of Nicea (325), imprisoned during the Emperor Diocletian’s persecution. According to legend, Nicholas was an extremely generous man. One story tells us he rescued three young women from prostitution by giving their poverty-stricken father three bags of gold. (Hence the use of three gold balls as the pawnbroker’s signs.) Over the centuries many, including children, sailors, unmarried girls, pawnbrokers and moneylenders have claimed him as their patron. Perhaps it was on account of S Nicholas’ generosity that in recent centuries children began to write little notes sometime before 6th December, to tell him about the toys they specially wanted. These notes were then left on the windowsill at night, or else on a ledge in the chimney. But St Nicholas’ Day chanced to lie in the magnetic field of a much more potent festival - and after awhile his activities were moved towards Christmas. Then in Bavaria the children still left their notes on the window sill, but they addressed them to Liebes Christkind Krishkinkle as they knew him - and the saint’s part in the matter was simply to deliver the letters in heaven. The most popular result of the cult of St Nicholas has been the institution of Santa Claus. He is based on Nicholas’ patronage of children and the custom in the Low Countries of giving presents on his 8 feast. Santa Claus has reached his zenith in America, where the Dutch Protestants of New Amsterdam (New York) united to it Nordic folklore legends of a magician who both punished naughty children and rewarded good ones with presents. 26th St Stephen (died c 35 AD) Have you ever stopped to consider that the very first martyr of the Christian Church was a deacon? (No, he wasn’t worked to death by his church.) It was Stephen, one of the first seven deacons of the Christian Church. He’d been appointed by the apostles to look after the distribution of alms to the faithful poor, and to help in the ministry of preaching. Acts 6 and 7 tells us all that we know of his life, and the passages seem to suggest that he was an educated Hellenistic Jew. Certainly Stephen’s famous challenge to the Jews reveals him to have been learned in the Scriptures and the history of Judaism, besides being eloquent and forceful. Stephen's proclamation on the day of his martyrdom pulled no punches. He told the Jews that God did not depend on the Temple. The Temple was but a temporary institution destined to be fulfilled and superseded by Christ, who was the prophet foreseen by Moses as the Messiah for whom the Jewish race had so long awaited. Stephen then challenged his hearers for resisting the Spirit and for killing the Christ, as their fathers before them had killed the prophets. The Jews were so outraged by this that they stoned Stephen on the spot for blasphemy. As he died, Stephen saw a vision of Christ on God's right hand. The men who were witness to the stoning placed their clothes at the feet of Saul (afterwards Paul), who (to his deep regret later) consented to Stephen's death. By the fourth century Stephen had his own feast day in both East and West Churches. When his supposed tomb was discovered in 415, his popularity soared. His (supposed) relics were taken to Constantinople and then Rome, along with some stones said to have been used at his martyrdom. 28th Holy Innocents The death of a very young child is perhaps the hardest grief of all to bear. So the 28th December is a very poignant day in the church calendar. It is when the worldwide Church joins with bereaved parents 9 to grieve the loss of babies and young children. For Holy Innocents day recalls the massacre of the young male children of Bethlehem by Herod the Great. Herod had been told by the magi, or wise men, that a great king had been born in Bethlehem, and he felt shaken. How could a child in unimportant little Bethlehem be so powerful that the stars in the night sky honoured his birth?! Herod took the magi so seriously that he decided to try and kill this new young rival. He decreed that every male baby of two years and under should be killed. (Matthew 2:1-18). Bethlehem was not a large place, and Bible commentators estimate that between six and 25 youngsters were slaughtered by Roman soldiers. Their mothers were inconsolable at the death of their babies, as indeed mothers have always been. The death of these innocent baby boys of Bethlehem became a feastday in the western Church by the 4th century. This was because the Church considered them to be martyrs because they not only died for Christ, but instead of Christ. Down the centuries, the tragic loss of the Holy Innocents has touched the imagination and hearts of poets, preachers and artists. aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa 10 Where your treasure is, there your heart will be also. Luke 12.34 Giving is an integral part of discipleship that resources God’s mission in our local community. In former times the idea of tithing (giving 10%) was encouraged. According to the Church of England’s own data, church members give an average of 3% of their income to the church. General Synod has challenged all church members to give as an initial target 5% of after-tax income. But more importantly, that members review their giving annually. The myth of a “golden age” in church attendance, is just that – a myth. The Diocese, with the Open University, has looked at historical data. This shows that church attendances were no better 100 years ago than they are now. The records clearly show that those churches which were perceived as being successful have generally been active within their community and where the members have given in generosity. The same is probably true today. Here at St. Martin’s we are about to finish what has been a challenging year for our finances. What is the financial picture of our church? The figures below are calculated from known income and expenditure up to the end of October and estimated figures for November and December. By the end of the 2010 our expected income should be around £140,000. Where will this money have come from? Restricted funds and special appeals 17% Fabric fund 1% Planned Giving 34% Fund raising Rentals 8% 26% 13% 1% Loose collections Reclaimed Tax Estimated income for 2010 11 Most of our income is from Planned Giving. This will be around £48,000 for 2010. £35,560 of this will be given by Standing Order. There are 45 Standing Orders. The top four givers have pledged £17,716 per annum. The other givers have pledged £17,844 per annum. As you can see 73% of our total income comes from direct giving, reclaimed tax and hire charges. When we look at our own giving, does each of us meet the Diocesan challenge? Fund raising, where we would expect to attract monies from those who do not regularly come to church, amounts to 8% of our income. Are there ways we can increase this income? How do we spend our money? The expected expenditure looks like this: Fund raising costs Stationery 2% Donations 3% 4% Restricted Funds 15% Requisites 1% Utilities 40% 7% Common Fund Maintenance and repairs 16% 4% Cleaning 6% 2% Insurance Personnel Estimated expenditure for 2010 The percentage for Restricted Funds is a little inflated due to the oneoff collecting and spending the monies for the Holy Land trip and the Malawi fund. Both of these are now closed. The largest expenditure is the Common Fund. What is the Common Fund and how is it spent? The Common Fund is the money we pay to the Diocese. The table below shows how it will have been spent. 12 Clergy stipend & pension, Vicarage costs, Council tax 65.5% Parish support and training costs 31.6% Willesden Area office costs 0.3% St. Martin’s contribution to support other parishes 1.5% Church Schools Levy 1.0% Deanery Synod & ecumenical councils fees 0.1% The percentage for Restricted Funds is a little inflated due to the oneoff collecting and spending the monies for the Holy Land trip and the Malawi fund. Both of these are now closed. The maintenance and repair sector includes the final payment of the Loan we were given 4 years ago to help repair the church roof. At the time we needed £40,000. The Diocese gave us a grant of £20,000 and an interest-free loan of £20,000. Clive Davis, Treasurer ±±±±±±±±±±±±±±±±±±±±±±±±±±±±±± STOP PRESS . . . . STOP PRESS . . . . STOP PRESS The Advent Fair last month raised (at the time of ‘going to press’) a magnificent profit of £1,475. This is thanks to everyone who bought and to all the stall holders who worked so hard before and during the day. Special thanks to Carolyn and Sean who organised this year’s Advent Fair. For those who missed Nicholas’ face painted as the white hare, here is a photo to show you what you missed. And a photo showing two of the excited people at the Fair. 13 Christmas and St Luke’s Gospel It is to St Luke’s wonderful gospel that many Christians turn as the year draws to a close and Christmas approaches, for it is to St Luke that we owe the fullest account of the nativity. Luke alone tells us the story of Mary and the angel’s visit to her, and has thus given the Church the wonderful Magnificat of Mary. Luke alone tells us the story of Simeon’s hymn of praise, thus giving us the wonderful Nunc Dimmittis. Imagine an Anglican evensong without the Nunc Dimmittis. Luke alone tells us the story of how the angels appeared to the shepherds and how the shepherds then visited the infant Jesus. Imagine Christmas cards and nativity scenes every year without the shepherds arriving to visit baby Jesus. Imagine school nativity plays without our children dressed as shepherds or sheep. So, thank you, Luke! What makes it so amazing is that Luke was not a Jew! The man who wrote the fullest nativity story, and indeed more of the New Testament than any other single person, was a Gentile! Christmas and St Matthew Gospel Now when Jesus was born in Bethlehem of Judaea in the days of Herod the king, behold there came wise men from the east to Jerusalem, saying, “Where is he that is born King of the Jews? For we have seen his star in the east, and are come to worship him.” When Herod the king had heard these things, he was troubled, and all Jerusalem with him. And when he had gathered all the chief priests and scribes of the people together, he demanded of them where Christ should be born. And they said unto him, “In Bethlehem of Judaea: for thus it is written by the prophet, ‘And thou Bethlehem, in the land of Judah, are not the least among the princes of Judah: for out of thee shall come a Governor, that shall rule my people Israel’”. Then Herod, when he had privately called the wise men, inquired of them diligently what time the star appeared. And he sent them to Bethlehem, and said, “Go and search diligently for the young child; and when ye have found him, bring me word again, that I may come and worship him also”. When they had heard the king, they departed; and lo, the star, which they saw in the east, went before them, till it came and stood over 14 where the young child was. When they saw the star, they rejoiced with exceeding great joy. And when they were come into the house, they saw the young child with Mary his mother, and fell down, and worshipped him: and when they had opened their treasures, they presented unto him gifts; gold, and frankincense, and myrrh. DDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD Copy for the January issue should reach the Editor by 14th December. The January magazine will be on sale by 25th December Article for the magazine should be sent to Clive Davis email: [email protected] DDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD THE HOLY LAND TRIP The Holy Land Trip made £250.00 for each church and this will be used to help pay our Common Fund contributions. Thanks go to Canon Dr. Anne Davison for arranging the pilgrimage so well. Jackie Nicholls wrote in last month “Over the next 3 issues I will show you the Holy Land...” Unfortunately, due to pressures of work Jackie will start these in the next issue. Meanwhile, to whet your appetite here is a photo of the group at one of the Holy sites. Editor ggggggggggggggggggggggggggggg GIFT DAY RESULT Amount received for Gift Day has so far reached £2,980. Can we take the final figure to over £3,000? Over to you! 15 Merry Christmas and Happy New Year in 40 Languages You can supply the pronunciations! Apache (Western) - Gozhqq Keshmish Arabic - I'D Miilad Said ous Sana Saida Croatian - Sretan Bozic Danish - Glædelig Jul og godt nytår Farsi - Sal-e no mubarak French - Joyeux Noël et Bonne Année! German - Fröhliche Weihnachten und ein glückliches Neues Jahr! Greek - Kala Christougenna Ki'eftihismenos O Kenourios Chronos Hawaiian - Mele Kalikimaka & Hauoli Makahiki Hou Hebrew - Mo'adim Lesimkha. Shanah Tova Hindi - Shubh Naya Baras Iraqi - Idah Saidan Wa Sanah Jadidah Irish - Nollaig Shona Dhuit Iroquois - Ojenyunyat Sungwiyadeson homungradon nagwutut & Ojenyunyat osrasay Italian - Buon Natale e Felice Anno Nuovo Japanese - Shinnen omedeto. Kurisumasu Omedeto Korean - Sung Tan Chuk Ha Kyrghyz - JangI jIlIngIz guttuu bolsun! Latin - Pax hominibus bonae voluntatis Maori - Kia orana e kia manuia rava i teia Kiritimeti e te Mataiti Ou Mongolian - Zul saryn bolon shine ony mend devshuulye Nepali - krist Yesu Ko Shuva Janma Utsav Ko Upalaxhma Hardik Shuva & Naya Barsa Ko harkik Shuvakamana Norweigan/Nynorsk - Eg ynskjer hermed Dykk alle ein God Jul og Godt Nyttår Polish - Wesolych Swiat i Szczesliwego Nowego Roku. Portuguese - Boas Festas e um feliz Ano Novo Romanian - Craciun fericit si un An Nou fericit! Russian - Pozdrevlyayu s prazdnikom Rozhdestva i s Novim Godom Samoan - Ia manuia le Kilisimasi ma le tausaga fou Somali - ciid wanaagsan iyo sanad cusub oo fiican. Spanish - Feliz Navidad y Próspero Año Nuevo Sudanese - Wilujeng Natal Sareng Warsa Enggal Swedish - God Jul och Gott Nytt År Tagalog - Maligayang Pasko at Manigong Bagong Taon Tahitian - Ia ora i te Noere e ia ora na i te matahiti 'api Thai - Suksan Wan Christmas lae Sawadee Pee Mai Ukrainian - Veseloho Vam Rizdva i Shchastlyvoho Novoho Roku! Vietnamese - Chuc Mung Giang Sinh - Chuc Mung Tan Nien Zulu - Sinifesela Ukhisimusi Omuhle Nonyaka Omusha Onempumelelo 16 A very big Thank You The Martinmas Ball was a great success and hugely enjoyed by all. A very large part of this was due to the Barnes, Reid and Bevitt families who worked very hard both before and during the evening. The profit of about £850.00 per church will be used to help meet our Common Fund payments. aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa 2011 Jan 23rd Jan 24th Jan 26th Feb 6th Mar 9th Mar 17th Mar 24th Mar 31st Apr 7th Apr 10th Apr 14th 6.30pm Joint Taize service at St Martin’s. 8pm PCC meeting Burns Night entertainment 10.30am Joint Confirmation service at All Saints 8pm Ash Wednesday service Lent course: Ethics for Today’s Church Lent course: Ethics for Today’s Church Lent course: Ethics for Today’s Church Lent course: Ethics for Today’s Church Annual Parochial Church Meeting Lent course: Ethics for Today’s Church 17 The Churches Players present ALADDIN At All Saints Church Hall, Elm Grove Road Thursday, December 2nd at 7.30pm including Fish & Chip Supper Tickets: £12 Friday, December 3rd at 7.30pm including Fish & Chip Supper Tickets: £12 Saturday, December 4th at 2.30pm Tickets: £7.50 (Concessions: £5.50); rear 4 rows £5.50 Saturday, December 4th at 8pm including Chilli con carne Supper Tickets: £12 Sunday, December 5th at 2.30pm including Grand Raffle Draw Tickets: £7.50 (Concessions: £5.50); rear 4 rows £5.50 Book your tickets now. Call Mo on 020 8579 1700 ±±±±±±±±±±±±±±±±±±±±±±±±±±±±±±±± EALING CHURCHES WINTER NIGHT SHELTER VOLUNTEERS TRAINING EVENING Wednesday 15th December 2010, 7.30pm – 10pm St Christopher’s Church, Bordars Road, Hanwell W7 1AG Led by Bruce Marquart (The Upper Room), & Rudi Richardson (Streetlytes) If you would like to volunteer at the Night Shelter, training is compulsory. If you are unable to attend, but would like to volunteer at the Night Shelter, please let us know. EALING CHURCHES WINTER NIGHT SHELTER St Christopher’s Church Tel: 020 8578 2796 Bordars Road Mob: 07796 988 302 Hanwell, W7 1AG [email protected] 19 Christmas: Where did Christmas trees come from? There are two early stories that mention fir trees. The first involves St Boniface, who went to Germany in the 8th century as a missionary and found people sacrificing a child to their god under an oak tree. Boniface was appalled, and rescued the child. He then chopped down the oak tree and found a tiny fir tree growing nearby. He gave this to the people and said: “This is a symbol of life. Whenever you look at this tree, remember the Christ-child who is the one who will give you life, because he gave his life for you.” The second early fir tree story involves Martin Luther in the 16th century. It is said that one year he decided to drag a fir tree into his home and to decorate it with candles. He used it as a visual aid, telling people that the candles symbolised Jesus as the light of the world, and the evergreen tree symbolised the eternal life that Jesus gives to us. Many of the people who followed Luther were struck by the idea, and took up the custom. Where did Christmas stockings come from? No one is really sure, but a story is told of St Nicholas, a bishop who lived in the 4th century, who may have started the custom by accident. St Nicholas was of a wealthy family, and of a generous heart. One year, as Christmas approached he wanted to help a poor family whom he knew, but he did not want them to know it was him. So he climbed up on their roof on Christmas Eve and dropped some coins down the chimney. The next morning the coins, to the great surprise of the family, were found in the stockings of the ladies, who had hung them to dry by the fire the night before. Every year following they put their stockings out, in the hope that some more money would fall into them. They told the story of this amazing appearance to their friends and neighbours, and the custom caught on. Why does it begin at midnight with Holy Communion? The hour was first chosen at Rome in the 5th century to symbolise the idea that Christ was born at midnight. No one knows the hour of his birth. One British writer pointed out its “domestic convenience” in 1947: “for where there are children and no servants, husband and wife may be unable to communicate at any other time.” Thank Dickens for Christmas as you know it! Ever wonder where many of our Christmas traditions come from? A surprising amount can be traced back to the well-loved story of ‘A Christmas Carol’, by Charles Dickens. 20 When you read ‘A Christmas Carol’, you discover almost a template of the ‘ideal Christmas’. Dickens seems to have selected the best of the Christmas celebrations of his day and packaged them in such a way as to give us traditions that we could accommodate and treasure - more than a century later. So, for instance, in ‘A Christmas Carol’, Christmas is a family day, with a family-centred feast. In a home decorated with holly and candles the characters enjoy a roast turkey, followed by Christmas pudding. They give their loved ones presents. Scrooge even gives donations to charity. And all the while outside, there is snow and frost, while church bells ring, and carol singers sing, hoping for mulled wine. In ‘A Christmas Carol’ there is even a Father Christmas - in the shape of Christmas Present. Only the Christmas tree itself came later, when Prince Albert imported ‘a pretty German toy’ that won the heart of the English court, and hence the rest of Victorian society. ××××××××××××××××××××××××××××××××××××× Hello Ealing! I have to say at this point as Area Dean I have a mixture of feelings. Excited, daunted, privileged, hopeful, apprehensive, wanting to be liked, glad to working with you! When asked to take on the role I got sent a 24 page ‘how to’ booklet (written by Andrew and other experienced area deans in the diocese. Thanks a lot Andrew!) and then you get a shed load of dairy dates for the coming year. It’s been good for me so far because it’s got me praying with a bit more urgency! All I really want to say at this point is that I’ll do my best to serve you and your churches’ building Christ’s Kingdom in our deanery. If I can help in any way just ask, when I make mistakes please let me know. Some of you I have known for a while, others I may not know so well. I look forward to getting to know you all better over the coming months. The first thing I would like to do is listen to your stories. Then perhaps together it will emerge how we continue to build on the all the good stuff that is happening across the deanery. Warmest regards, Christopher Area Dean of Ealing Rev’d Christopher Ramsay 21 Some more photographs from Nicholas’ 25th Anniversary at St Martin’s. The presentation.... About to cut the cake.... Cutting the cake.... 22 Services this Christmas at St Martin’s Church Sunday 5th 10am Christingle Family Service Sunday 19th 6.30pm: Joint Nine Lessons & Carols at St Martin’s Friday 24th 4pm: Children’s Carol Service 11pm: Midnight Eucharist Saturday 25th: Christmas Day 8am: Holy Communion 10am: Parish Communion No 6.30pm Sunday 26th 8am: Holy Communion 10am: Parish Communion No 6.30pm
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